have you ever come across something and just don't feel right about it. when you see someone is doing something bad or sinful, what is your reaction? i don't know which is worse, the one that is doing the bad thing or the one that have seen it but did't do anything to correct it, otherwise talk bad about it with other people. what is more disappointing, those people are your family, brothers and sisters. astagfirullahalazim.
hate the sin, not the sinner.
sometimes, it just feel weird. how could someone say bad things about their family members. a person that i know, she has been avoided her family. i used to wonder why she did that when i was a small kid. yeah, i thought the world is only rainbows, unicorn and candies at that time. but recently , i figured it out.
human beings are not perfect and will never become one. we make mistakes, but the most important thing is we learnt something from it and never repeat it again. however, when someone did something wrong, why are we, the same human beings that also make mistakes, easily judge those people? why? who are we to do that? even Allah s.w.t always forgive His slaves if they ask for His forgiveness.
those people that make mistakes, need our guide, love and sympathy not hate, they've got enough of that. don't easily jump into a conclusion. if we are not sure, just simply ask. try to be more understanding.we are not in their shoes and sometimes what we see as small and simple problems might be their worst nightmare. if we keep saying bad things about them, will that change anything?
rather than talking bad about them, it is more effective if we help them, guide them to the right path. don't ever neglect those who needs attention the most. they are our family. how could we let them deal with their problems without we even trying to help? pray for them, find the truth and help them with their life. just try to put ourselves in their shoes, which will we appreciate more, people that hate us and talk bad about us when we are down or people that help us to be on the right path back?
about that person earlier, she didn't tell but i know. she is hurt. people say a lot of things to her and judge her. they treat her differently. if i am at her place, i will also avoid those people that only know how to talk and judge but never try to understand. yes, she made mistakes, but help her, show her the right way. if there is nothing that could be done, never forget that Allah is always there for His shippers. pray, pray and pray. Indeed, He is the best listener. He is the best of all.
every righteous person has a past, every sinner has a future.
my endless love
he is as sweet as a candy
*at matrik - on phone with him
me : kerja banyak sangat lecturer bagi, tak sempat nak siap semua....wuwuwu * crying*
him : tak pe lah, kalau tak larat buat semua buat sikit-sikit dulu, takkan lecturer nak marah tak siap kalau dah banyak sangat kerja
me : dia marah...
him : cakap la kat dia elok-elok, mesti dia faham
me : ok *sobbing*
him : ok, jaga diri elok-elok, jangan stay up lama-lama, i miss you
*at the station bus at 10 pm - on phone with him
him : kat mana ni?
me : kat stesyen bas lagi, baru habis test, tunggu bas ni tak datang-datang dari pukul 9 tadi, blablablabla.... *whining, whining and almost cry*
him : apa la bas ni, tak datang- datang, sekejap lagi ada lah tu, kalau takde jugak tumpang je lah tidur rumah kak ani ( cousin).
me : hahaha, malu la nak tidur rumah dia, ok tunggu sekejap lagi
him : ok, take care, i miss you
when i acted like a spoiled brat
*at college - on phone with him
him : balik bila?
me : minggu depan
him : nak naik bas ke nak datang ambik?
me : nak datang ambik la, blablabla ( bagi alasan macam-macam sebab tak nak balik naik bas )
* at matrik - on phone with him
me : tak nak datang ke minggu ni?
him : kenapa?
me : tak ada apa, saja je datang melawat
him : tengok la kalau tak ada apa-apa hal datang la
me : yay!!
but sometimes, he also annoyed me
*1
me : nak keluar pergi bandar dengan kawan boleh tak?
him : buat apa? pergi mana? dengan siapa? tak payah la bahaya, tak baca tu surat khabar, culik lah, rogol, la, ragut, samun. kalau nak pergi nanti pergi sama-sama naik kereta
me : ........................................................ok
*2
me : nak ikut rombongan sekolah pergi zoo negara boleh tak?
him : ada apa?
me : ada macam aktiviti kebajikan, tolong- tolong bersih kan zoo, pastu pergi jalan-jalan
him : tak payah la, bersih kan rumah je, boleh ke tahan nak bersih kan tempat-tempat binatang tu? tikus dengan kucing pun takut.....
me : =.="..............................................ok
never mind, i still love you and will always love you. my hero that will always be there for me whenever i laugh or cry or just trying to attract his attention.
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sometimes, or most of the time he is being so protective towards me, but i know that he means well. papa, you are the best father that someone could ever ask for. i am so bless to have you. i am not anymore the little girl that will run to you and cry when some jerks made me feel bad but i know you will always there for me when i need you. there are just not enough words to describe how wonderful you are. thank you for all your care, your love and everything that you did for me. i am so sorry if i ever make you disappointed and i promise, insya-Allah, on one fine day, i will make you proud.
your proud daughter :)
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