We are all sinners. May Allah forgive us.

have you ever come across something and just don't feel right about it. when you see someone is doing something bad or sinful, what is your reaction? i don't know which is worse, the one that is doing the bad thing or the one that have seen it but did't do anything to correct it, otherwise talk bad about it with other people. what is more disappointing, those people are your family, brothers and sisters. astagfirullahalazim.

hate the sin, not the sinner.

sometimes, it just feel weird. how could someone say bad things about their family members. a person that i know, she has been avoided her family. i used to wonder why she did that when i was a small kid. yeah, i thought the world is only rainbows, unicorn and candies at that time.  but recently , i figured it out.

human beings are not perfect and will never become one. we make mistakes, but  the most important thing is we learnt something from it and never repeat it again. however, when someone did something wrong, why are we, the same human beings that also make mistakes, easily judge those people? why? who are we to do that? even Allah s.w.t always forgive His slaves if they ask for His forgiveness.

those people that make mistakes, need our guide, love and sympathy not hate, they've got enough of that. don't easily jump into a conclusion. if we are not sure, just simply ask. try to be more understanding.we are not in their shoes and sometimes what we see as small and simple problems might be their worst nightmare. if we keep saying bad things about them, will that change anything?

rather than talking bad about them, it is more effective if we help them, guide them to the right path. don't ever neglect those who needs attention the most. they are our family. how could we let them deal with their problems without we even trying to help? pray for them, find the truth and help them with their life. just try to put ourselves in their shoes, which will we appreciate more, people that hate us and talk bad about us when we are down or people that help us to be on the right path back?

about that person earlier, she didn't tell but i know. she is hurt. people say a lot of things to her and judge her. they treat her differently. if i am at her place, i will also avoid those people that only know how to talk and judge but never try to understand. yes, she made mistakes, but help her, show her the right way. if there is nothing that could be done, never forget that Allah is always there for His shippers. pray, pray and pray. Indeed, He is the best listener. He is the best of all.

every righteous person has a past, every sinner has a future.